If a person spends more time trying to fit in or please the people who don’t really care/superficially care about him/her
Instead of recognzing his/her own boundaries
Or instead of caring about the feelings and wishes of the people who DO care about him/her…
Then he/she is taking the later category’s existence in his/her life for granted.
If he/she values the people who can replace him/her over the people who find him/her irreplaceable…
If in his/her head….the nobodies are somebodies and the somebodies are nobodies then what’s the point of the latter sticking around?
